Posts by Janai Mestrovich

Connecting With Children

September 12, 2014 Articles 0 Comments

From Webster: CONNECT: To join or become joined together. To associate or consider as related. To join to or by means of a communications circuit. To make a connection. When we connect, we make a link….to one another, to hearts, minds, spirits. If it is even for one second, we

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One Grudge Breeds Another

September 12, 2014 Articles 0 Comments

Special occasions call for memorable experiences. On this special holiday of goodwill and contemplation of a year gone by as another door opens, we long for a satisfied, full feeling of the heart. Adults who are connected to children have the fantastic opportunity to give them a very precious gift

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A is for Apple, P is for Pressure

September 12, 2014 Articles 0 Comments

JOPERD/February 1991 “Why, preschoolers don’t need stress management. They don’t have stress! All they have to do is play and grow up.” The person responsible for this statement had no daily contact with or knowledge of the dynamics involved in a child’s reality. While the sources of stress may differ

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Empathy, Bridge to a Bigger World

September 12, 2014 Articles 0 Comments

After watching the special report on starving children in Africa in the ‘80’s, our six year old daughter had many questions about why those children were always hungry. It was a perfect opportunity to help her bridge the only world she knew to understand that there are many ways people

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Violence

September 12, 2014 Articles 0 Comments

The day after Columbine I was asked to address a kindergarten class on the meaning of violence. I had to think about that for more than a moment. It had to be an explanation on their level of understanding. Tactile, graphic, simple and being direct were the four components needed

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Young Children and Chores

September 12, 2014 Articles 0 Comments

Show me a child who has never had any responsibility in sharing the chores in a household and I will show you a child who: doesn’t realize she is needed and a vital part of the family community cannot have full respect for residing adults and what they are managing

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Helping Children Develop a Positive Attitude

September 12, 2014 Articles 0 Comments

Repetition teaches everything with children….and even with ourselves. If children are exposed to negative thinking adults, they learn quickly that is a way to live in their own lives. And the opposite is true. Positive thinking adults bring positive thinking possibilities into a feasible reality for children. What we repeat

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Watermelon Seed Spitting

September 4, 2014 Cross Generational Activities 0 Comments

Watermelon seed spitting! I do it with my grandchildren, friends and relatives. Fun anytime of year you can find watermelon seeds or cherry seeds/pits. Have contests or a target. My friend, Maya, is getting pretty good but I still beat her. It’s fun regardless of age!

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