Connecting with Children


Screaming gets the job done!

July 30, 2013 Connecting with Children 0 Comments

Claire wanted to swing at the park. She was carrying two buckets. I put her in the swing and held onto the buckets which was evidently unnerving to her so she screamed pointing at the buckets. I put one into her left hand. She kept screaming. I finally understood that

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Listening to Kids Communication Skills

July 24, 2013 Connecting with Children 0 Comments

Specialized Claire jibberish mixed with the word ‘down’ made it very clear to me that Claire was finished with her dinner. Can you tell? hahahaha (Plate had already been turned upside down then tossed onto the floor….when a girl is done, she is DONE!) Really listening to children at all

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Ashland July 4th Parade 2013

July 10, 2013 Connecting with Children 0 Comments

It is a joy to be the Freedom Fairy in the Ashland July 4th parade! Happy hearted here! Awarded First Place for Adult Entries! Granting freedom wishes as the Freedom Fairy, flying-running back and forth on the street in the dynamic Ashland July 4th Parade, waving my wings over children

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Communication Success

July 6, 2013 Connecting with Children 0 Comments

Claire pointed to my cell phone and said, “baby” as she reached for it and looked at the screen. She’s caught onto the fact that I take piks of her and her brother and was asking in her own way to see the “baby.” It felt important to appease the

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Teaching with Grandies

June 28, 2013 Connecting with Children 0 Comments

Another Grandma Boom ‘high’ today. Taught twenty 3-5 yr. olds at a daycare how to switch from tense to calm using drums, knot/sox, singing bowl, squeezie to get feelings out and more. Claire assisted me, then Grayson helped later. WOW!! Teaching with my grandies! I love being 64!!!

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Empower Children at the U of O

June 26, 2013 Connecting with Children 0 Comments

Full-hearted, high on endorphins from teaching EMPOWER CHILDREN at Univ. of Oregon this week, and LOVING a messy classroom. Friend, Michelle, helped me tie chairs for a surprise greeting to students for an exercise in certain skills I was teaching. Intrinsic rewards pouring in, like this from a graduate student:

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Quality Contact Time With a Messy Kitchen

June 11, 2013 Connecting with Children 0 Comments

Messes in the kitchen with grandkiddos. Is it worth it? My 2 yr. old granddaughter is learning how to stir ingredients…..rather vigorously! hahaha She is LEARNING. She has a wonderful time. It is messy but it builds confidence if handled wisely and with humor. She helped clean it up and

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Fertilizing Adults!

June 11, 2013 Connecting with Children 0 Comments

We adults….we are fertilizers! One second her brain is focused on a toy to go after and with the sound of a bird singing nearby she may change focus in a split second and head that way. A little one’s mind is so open and busy because it is absorbing

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